Monday, June 2, 2008

The confusion

Life can be so confusing sometimes. What to do, what not to do, what path to take, and what thoughts to listen to? So afraid of making a bad decision, life can be downright frightening. But what in life constitutes a bad decision? Is it choosing the wrong job, maybe the wrong girl or guy, or is it breaking the rules?

Sometimes bad decisions in life are necessary to find out who you are, to find what means the most to you, and to maybe find how special of a life you have. Those are not bad decisions by any means; those are simply lessons you learn, some harder than others. The bad decisions in life are the ones you make to pursue one of those lessons but then never actually learn them. Changing your life to find out who you are but then never actually looking into yourself to figure that out, is one of those mistakes.

The greatest accomplishment anyone can make is to know thyself and be happy with who you are. But what if you’re not happy with who you are or who you are with for that matter? Do you settle for something less than you deserve, or do you wait for someone who deserves you?

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